Let's Do This!: How To Prepare For A Spiritual Advising Session With Sunflower

thesunflowermystic
Jul 1, 2024
6 min read

Are you searching for that focus needed to make some decisions? Does it seem like the Universe at large is against you and nothing is going right? Is making decisions difficult because you feel like you’ve made too many wrong decisions in the past or you’re just plain tired of the trial and error game.

Well, let me first say. Life is meant to be an adventure that should ultimately result in growth as a human being in all of our capacities that make up our core. I'm talking about the physical, the emotional, and the spiritual. That growth takes place in learning and applying what has been learned on your particular life path. A lot of people get caught up into taking care of the physical body along with the emotions, but do not have a focus on the essential core of oneself which is the spirit.

If you are here looking into spiritual advising , that makes a huge statement. Your spirit must be waking up and that voice is becoming louder than the emotional ocean or the more rational mind of the physical world. Are you ready to take the plunge into understanding a bit more of how important your unique spiritual path is to your overall life path and well being?

Let’s get started with a few tips of how to prepare for a session with me to get the most benefits in receiving guidance and understanding. These tips come from my years of connecting daily with individuals who come searching. Please understand that these are meant to be suggestions and are meant to be for the overall preparation. Sessions are broken down to focus areas. I will be writing more on the specific ones in future blogs.

First of all, let’s acknowledge that there are some things that cannot be explained away with the rational mind. That’s where what some may call magic or having a faith in the invisible begins. Once you open up to and acknowledge the spiritual world, it is quite magical.

Believe

Faith is believing someone or something that you cannot see or rationally explain. The spirit world is invisible to most, but yet many of us believe in a God/dess. Some of us were raised in a spiritual belief system that became a core part of who we are and how we define the spiritual world. Others have had personal experiences that have created a core belief in something spiritual.

Every living being has a spirit (a soul) that makes up the core being. It’s the part that continues to live even after the physical body dies. That is what individuals like me (a psychic medium) see when we're connecting to the spirit world. It's your loved one's spirit that shows up on my radar. But it’s not only the dead that I see, I connect to your Divine, your spirit guides, angels, higher entities, and even the bad ones. Who and what I see depends on who you are and your spiritual and life purpose and choices you have made.

You Start The Connecting

It’s up to you to connect to your spirits. You connect in your own unique way. Rather it’s through some sort of ritual, prayer, singing, or just plain yelling out to them. Be sure to tell them you’re going to see Sunflower (me). I say that because clients have told me through the years of spiritual connections that they have told there loved ones to do so. Those are the ones that while I’m preparing and waiting for the scheduled time, the loved ones in spirit, deceased pets, and even the higher ups give me a surprise visit. It’s been known that they have woken me up out of a deep sleep to say, “You’re going to talk to my loved one today,” (referring to a coming client unbeknownst to me).

Your personal connection to your spirit team is the key to a more personal and detailed connection with me.

Got Questions?

Focus is necessary because if you’re not focused then I’m going to be pulled hither and thither with seeing this, hearing from that, and oh yeah……there’s something about this or that. It isn’t going to make a lick of sense if it doesn't apply to what you're thinking about. For me, it's like a radio scanner going off in my ears, flipping through the psychic movie channels in my head, and reading the different energies all at once.

Let’s take one doorway at a time. Got questions about the love interest? Then I will focus on that doorway of being a seer, connecting with your Divine and spirit team, plugging into the energies, and letting the movie take place of what’s actually going on in regards to your questions.

Oh, you’re thinking of a deceased loved one or pet? Then I’m going to be opening that doorway and ringing the doorbell to say, “I’ve got a call out for _______.” Remember, talk to them and ask them to come to me (Sunflower). That gets the doorbells ringing off and doors flying open which leads to those amazing connections that you may have heard about or will hear about in future blogs (hint, hint).

Two Way Conversation

This session is going to be the both of us talking. Let me give an example. When a loved one is standing next to me shouting, “December” (or whatever month they are giving me) and you simply say, “Yes,” we're not going to get anywhere. But to say, “Yes, I can take that month. It’s my birthday month!” is going to get the ball rolling in the conversation and connection department.

Why? Because it’s your voice, your energies, and your acknowledgement that opens the door wider. Sometime it is your spirit loved one practicing their communication skills with me. They don’t always know how to “talk” to me and so it becomes a lesson. That’s why it’s always good to send them on to me before scheduling just so we can practice before the phone call.

Other times, they are waiting for you to respond. They're not hear to talk to me. They are talking to you. I'm only the Spiritual phone operator here. I say what I"m hearing, seeing, or however they are getting the message across. You take that info and explain what it means to you. They listen, and send more back to me. It's a back and forth scenario.

When it comes to looking into your personal life questions, I’ll take your questions and begin to tell you what I’m seeing (or however the info comes). But I”m going to stop here and there to say, “Are you with me? Can you take that or is everything off in left field?” I’ve got to make sure we’re both on the same thought wave because spirits like to pull me off to those areas that they want to talk about. I know how to work my channels, but I need your to go with the flow. Trust my process because it's all going to come around to not only your questions but what you need to understand and know.

Plan and Prepare

I write with love and from my personal experiences. When I have to be direct, I'll be direct. This section calls for it. So take a deep breath and know that I have your best interest in mind. I know the emotion ocean can be crashing all around. It's hard to even think, let alone make plans. So I"m here to help. Make this a checklist.

Plan ahead and prepare for that 30-minutes (or hour) phone call that you scheduled with me. Have that quiet space ready. You want my full attention. I need your full attention. No friends hanging around. No children (or pets) running back and forth. You, me and the spirits.

Technology is a huge part of this. Make sure your mobile phone is charged up. Make sure you’re in a hot spot for the mobile phone or wi-fi if you’re using Zoom. Grab your headphones so you can hear me. No recording devices are to be used so grab your pen and paper.

Have you already been talking to your spirits? Praying to Divine about the situation? Calling out to loved ones deceased (including any pets that you’re focused on) hoping to hear from?

If you’re meditating, leave yourself open. Be protected but open. If you ground yourself completely, then I’m going to have to spend time opening you back up. To put it simply, keep the light switch (your energies and light source…aka…your spirit) on. Don’t shut it down. I’ll have to start playing the Close Encounter theme to get all those lights back on. (re me do DO SO!!)

Let's Do This!

Are you ready? Have my simple explanations and suggestions be of help to you as you're preparing for our session? I am so excited about connecting with you and helping you on your spiritual and life path. I want our time together to be meaningful and magical in the sense of giving you a more focused outlook to at least get you going with a renewed hope, strength, and inner peace that you've got this! (At least for the days ahead, remember......Take one day at a time.)